Vulnerability and boundaries do not need to be at odds with each other.
If I overshare, you must be direct in telling me. If we normalized direct communication in this way, boundaries would be easy to set.
Instead, we lash out because this is how we set boundaries in the past. I do not share at all, for fear of overstepping a boundary we never established.
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