Advice can sometimes feel like the other person is being dismissive of your feelings.
That's a difficult issue. However, it is my issue as the receiver. My friends are only trying to help. They want to help. It is me that sees it as being dismissive because I am feeling like needing advice means I am a screw up, a failure, and seeing their advice as dismissive protects me from the hurt.
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